Saturday, June 7, 2008

Oh happy day

Congrats to the class of 2008! Walking the senior-lined hallways this morning, I was rewarded for all my efforts as a teacher. Granted, I know teaching isn't about the rewards, but sometimes we need to be reminded that we are making a difference (doesn't everyone need that affirmation?).

There's no greater thanks than a student seeking you out to thank you or to hug you good-bye. It's as if it's finally acceptable for them to express their appreciation and gratitude. For some, achieving this step was easy; school was challenging at times, but not graduating was never an issue. For others, graduation is truly an achievement; for whatever reason, school hasn't come easily for them. For all, though, this day is special. And I'm grateful that I've been a part of their school experience.

Saying good-bye is a special moment. Yes, I feel validated as an educator, but I also think the students realize just how much we teachers care. I and my co-workers tried to connect with as many seniors as possible, passing along our congrats and the occasional hug, listening to their future plans and wishing them well. This is what high school is about-- caring, connecting, and preparing students for the next stage in life.

I hope they know that I do care and wish them all the best. I connected with some more than others, but I do wish them all success. And for those like D., who failed my class (last year) and who comes from a troubled family situation (he didn't even know if anyone from his family would actually be at graduation today), I hope he realizes that when I said, "I'm proud of you," that I really mean it. For him and others like him, I hope that the next chapter of his life is filled with warm moments and successes, growth, and love. And that he might recognize that someone does believe in him even if those who should don't.

So to the class of '08, may your lives be full and satisfying. May you seize the day, taking advantage of the many opportunities in your paths, making the most of your gifts and talents. Thank you for being my students, trusting me to prepare you for the future. Keep your heads up; you never know what the future will bring.

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